Moving forward (sexual abuse )

[Phoenix_Rising]

I believe you @Former-Member. Not being believed is one of my biggest triggers because I've experienced oh-so-much of it. I hear you and I believe you.

[Former-Member]

Thanks little turtle @Phoenix_Rising
Im glad someone believes me ❤❤
It was a struggle just to write my stories out on here but at least its out now

[Former-Member]

That's normal to not know where you want to head. When your not well I find the brain to be a puzzle in a thousand pieces with kid throwing them around then a twister comes and blows them more around.

What you need to focous on is day to day. Day to day is a massive goal. Once you get secure in that do week to week and so on and then you will start to know where you want head. But remember some days it's going to be easy and some days you are going to take 20 steps back. It's normal. And it's going to take time.

[Former-Member]

thanks @Former-Member i think im still at the stage of minute by minute but one day itll go from day to day

[Former-Member]

All you need to do is take a deep breath. Literally tackle everything one at a time. Everything must look like a tusnami at the moment but if you take a breath before you attack it or deal with it you will start to notice it's actually all little waves making a big wave and instead of attacking the big wave attack a small one that you know you can deal with and keep going then the mega wave will get smaller.

That's what I do others wise I freak out big time and got zero clue where to go as I think I got one massive issue but really it's all different size issues that can be delt with

[Former-Member]

Thanks@loulathecat
That is a better way to look at things. People always tell me to loom at the bug picture which is what ive been doing but if i tackle one small thing at a time and break it down i think i will get further than what i am now

[BlueBay]

Thinking of you @Former-Member xxoo

[Former-Member]

Thanks @BlueBay ❤❤❤ your so kind

[Former-Member]

ok i think i really trust you guys on here , do you mind if i let something out thats been on my mind relating to this abuse? @Appleblossom@Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member

[Former-Member]

Hi @Former-Member

you dont need to ask! (also remembering the community guidelines 🙂 no graphic detail, should be ok)

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