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I can’t cope
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28 Feb 2025 09:06 PM
28 Feb 2025 09:06 PM
Re: I can’t cope
Awww @Captain24 .
Hugs. Thanks for thinking of me. I was thinking of you too.
Yes, I feel much lighter. Thanks for reminding me about using the support app. I've got another session booked in for next week.
I'm glad you are safe. That's a good way re going a different road. In a way, when you don't know the rode, you are forced to focus so your mind can't wander...
Hope you are okay.
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28 Feb 2025 09:13 PM
28 Feb 2025 09:13 PM
Re: I can’t cope
That’s ok. I feel like we ‘get’ each other and I wanted to check in with you. @tyme
Im so glad you used that app. My question for you is… what plans do you have in place for the weekend? I’m guessing there are no supports.
I’ll think I’ll keep going the other road for a while. Yes I have to concentrate plus on my way to work it’s still dark and being a country road it doesn’t have reflectors on the lines.
I feel unsafe after the disagreement. I’ve been playing it over in my mind since. But I am safe.
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28 Feb 2025 09:20 PM
28 Feb 2025 09:20 PM
Re: I can’t cope
Yes, i'm sure that yucky feeling lingers after such a conversation, but good on your for being assertive! You show em who to look down on! @Captain24
As for the weekend, I'll be fine. Once I'm 'over it', I'll be fine - until the next thing happens. I don't hold onto it. Not worth it. Stupid power freaks will get what they deserve. I'm confident of that.
Please take care when you go down on those roads. Safety safety safety.
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28 Feb 2025 09:29 PM
28 Feb 2025 09:29 PM
Re: I can’t cope
Is this all still lingering from what happened just before you went on holidays, or is in new issues stemming from that. Or is it completely unrelated? @tyme
Yeah a few people have died along that road. It’s not wide enough to have the lines in the outside edge of the road. The trees are all really close to the road and I don’t know what the roo situation is like. I didn’t see any dead ones in my way to work.
While what happened is eating me up and when I think about it it makes me cry, I am proud of myself for standing up to him.
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28 Feb 2025 09:54 PM
28 Feb 2025 09:54 PM
Re: I can’t cope
Nah, this is totally unrelated. That was another dufus... and I think I told you that after it all happened, he had a heart attack? Now is that not karma or what?
That's why I feel I don't need to waste energy to fight this because it will come back to bite them @Captain24
Please please take care when you drive on those roads. I'll be thinking of you.
I'm about to hop off, but will see you Sunday 8pm 🙂
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28 Feb 2025 10:02 PM - edited 28 Feb 2025 10:02 PM
28 Feb 2025 10:02 PM - edited 28 Feb 2025 10:02 PM
Re: I can’t cope
That’s right.. I forgot about the heart attack.. @tyme
My great grandmother use to say ‘what goes around comes around’ she was a big believer in Karma.
Hopefully they get their karma..I don’t wish a heart attack or anything on them. Just get their just desserts
Aee you sunday night.
look after yourself
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01 Mar 2025 03:39 PM
01 Mar 2025 03:39 PM
Re: I can’t cope
Hope you are doing well. I'm not hanging around, but will see you tomorrow evening.
Have a safe trip home today. Hope work is okay @Captain24
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02 Mar 2025 07:04 PM
02 Mar 2025 07:04 PM
Re: I can’t cope
Hey @tyme
Im just leaving work.
I just want to say I’ve been thinking of you over the weekend and hope you are ok.
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02 Mar 2025 07:11 PM
02 Mar 2025 07:11 PM
Re: I can’t cope
Hey @Captain24 ,
Thanks for letting me know. Good to see you.
It's been a big day on the forums. Chat once you get home. Have a safe drive.
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02 Mar 2025 07:51 PM
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