under 30s thread

[outlander]

Thats a really good way to think of it @Zoe7

How about it @Former-Member can you think of it as a holiday?

[Former-Member]

I need someone to speak to them on my behalf @Zoe7

[outlander]

@Former-Member how about waiting till the ban is lifted and then having a rational convo with the ro staff about how you feel/felt about the ban

[Former-Member]

They won't listen to me @outlander that's what I have been trying to do - have a rational convo but everything I say they shut me down

[Former-Member]

I need to get back on now

[Zoe7]

You know we would for you @Former-Member if we could but it wouldn't change anything. You know that when you are calm and less emotional too. The ban will stand and you don't want to make it any longer - and we don't want you to feel so upset about it.

How about telling me a little more about the business ideas you have!

[outlander]

@Former-Member i know its distressing you but think about the options you have. You wont be able to go back for 11 days so what can you do thats productive in the meantime

[Zoe7]

@Former-Member I know the thing you need most when you are like this is to be heard. So how about you tell us why the other site is so important to you - it might help to get some of those thoughts out - we are listening.

[Former-Member]

I have already done some jobs for it but I can't do everything until im fully qualified so I just do small cash jobs @Zoe7 I want to help people like my sister as well as doing the normal landscaping stuff

[Zoe7]

I love how committed you are to working on gardens for people like your sister @Former-Member - that tactile stuff is so important for autistic kids/people.