im back..... i think

[outlander]

Lol @Spookytookims thanks for that info 😎😎😆😆

Ok well forget fb do u think i miss interpreted her hello maybe. Maybe it was as forced as what i thought it was. Im usually really good at reading people so maybe i shouldve kept to my instincts rather than trying to be nice

[Spookytookims]

@outlander  I am someone who always believes in their instincts.  I think it's primordial and links us to something we don't understand but warns us or guides us if we listen to it.   The only time in my life I have dismissed my instincts is the only time things went really really wrong and I wound up in this horrible terrible mess of PTSD that I'm in.

But .... caution.. sometimes we can confuse assumption with instinct.. so that becomes the tricky part.  That's where what we were talking about earlier, clarification is needed.  But I think you have enough evidence to decide on this one.  What do you think?

[outlander]

Yeahy instincts are saying stay away from.her and font worry about her. Do my own thing and she can do hers @Spookytookims
Ive failed my instincts many many times thats why i have all this crap to deal with as well

[Spookytookims]

Thinking they [the instincts] might be right in this case, unfortunately @outlander

[Spookytookims]

hey @outlander  want to hear a synchronicity?  I popped netflix on and hadn't a clue what I was going to watch.. and the very first thing that I saw was "outlander new episodes"  so guess what I decided to watch just cos.. 😛  😄

[outlander]

Yeah me too @Spookytookims

[outlander]

Haha omg love that tv series!!!!! Ive been reading the books
Thats ok the one with jamie on it !!! @Spookytookims

[outlander]

Hehe lol im a mew series with the same old shite @Spookytookims 😎😎😎🤔🤔

[Spookytookims]

maybe one day it will be possible to write a personality profile and download it into your brain...   after all the way internet/wifi etc all work is on a somewhat quantum level...  and they are figuring out our brains probably operate in a similar way...  so who knows...  would be confusing..   but helpful to really disordered or traumatised minds.  @outlander   see there I go again.. outside the box. 

[Former-Member]

a journal i read a while ago said that personality is still developing until around 30 years of age. AFter that its more or less set, but can be changed with intsensive work. it kind of sucks wiht a trauma brain though. i dont really know who/what i'd be if crud didnt happen. am i who i am?