Tabaluga's

[saturnzoon]

Morning 

@TAB @Meowmy @greenpea @StuF @Jacques @Bill16 @Glisten and all

Wishing all a safe peaceful day 🙏 

[TAB]

Take it easy @saturnzoon  hope there is eome good in your day. Think 39 here today

House cooled down overnight tho. Kitchen warmest rm still. But 6 deg less than yest. Had a missed call fm private number. Hate that. Hope not centrelink haha

[Meowmy]

@saturnzoon hey saturnzoon, take care. Have a good day.

[Meowmy]

@TAB hey tabby, another quiet day here at work. Think fet batgirlcycle to the mall after work ha ha. Hope you're private call be okay

[greenpea]

@saturnzoon   have a wonderful and cool day. love you peaxx

[avant-garde]

@TAB 

Woke up this morning to a message saying "hope your week is going ok. sorry I'm too busy to meet with you today, next week"

I get far too many messages like this from him

I finally called him out

"Your message comes across as cold and impersonal which has a detrimental effect on my mental health. It makes me feel like an inconvenience, that I'm just a tick box on your weekly to-do list. It promotes feelings of worthlessness and unimportance. 

I understand your commitments but a feeling of compassion would be beneficial. 

Rather than assuming or hoping my week is going ok, ask me if it is. 

Sentences like you know this will be disheartening, but you need to postpone today. 

Acknowledge the impact it has on me, it'll actually make a difference rather than being thrown into the very familiar darkness of childhood beliefs."

Did I overreact? I feel like he had this coming

[TAB]

Hi @avant-garde  sorry, I'm not up on who 'he' is  ..  I scanned something in another thread the other day, but not sure. if its a relationship , sounds close to terminal (to me)

if its professional take it a with pinch of salt maybe . At least they know how you feel now. I guess the test is the 'next time' why do they cancel all the time ? not good on a personal or professional level. maybe get rid of them

[avant-garde]

@TAB 

He's a friend from church who has been asked to keep tabs on me and my mental health and how I'm going with the church side of my trauma and relationship difficulties...

[TAB]

I realised it was prob hospital. they dont leave msgs til getting desperate. @Meowmy 

next heart procedure is next tuesday. has snuck up on me. I rang them and 

have now confirmed day and time of procedure and booked hotel. (and lied about someone picking me up etc) as older brother refused to do it again. )

I forgot have to fast, ugh  and its super early so have to get up like 3am and drive w no coffee ha ha lol think will take iced coffee and a sandwich of my own to hosp to eat after procedure, well. plus eat theirs ha ha lol. put on a kilo since yest but lost way more being sick, ha

Enjoy Batgirlcycle 

Hope things okay @StuF 

[TAB]

.. he's blanking you .. just not game to do it completely @avant-garde