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heera72
Senior Contributor

People-pleasing Behavior

Sometimes, we tend to people-please without knowing it, and it is essential to stop people-pleasing for better mental health. The best way to stop people-pleasing behavior is by setting clear boundaries and learning to say "no" without guilt. We should start by identifying and prioritizing our needs instead of constantly seeking approval from others, practicing self-reflection to understand why we feel compelled to please, and recognizing the underlying fears or insecurities driving the behavior. Build self-esteem through self-compassion and affirmations, acknowledging our worth without validation from others. Surround ourselves with people who respect our boundaries, allowing us to practice assertiveness. Over time, as we consistently assert ourselves, people-pleasing tendencies will diminish. 

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Re: People-pleasing Behavior

yes so true, definitely takes practice to get more and more comfy with saying 'no' and keeping those boundaries up @heera72 definitely worth it in the long run.