โ23-03-2020 11:22 PM
โ23-03-2020 11:22 PM
What an a/h @Faith-and-Hope Not only is he not paying the bills he should have he is loading them onto you - not surprised just more of his continual game playing ...but h you have it all over him because of the feeling you have in paying them of having some control now over your home. It will be even better when things are in your name ๐
I certainly hope both S2 and D3 recover quickly ...and so, so pleased it is just a cold. You cannot be too cautious at the moment.
It sounds like unpacking the car is a tomorrow job now. I hope you got enough supplies from uni to help you over the next weeks/months in your study. So pleased you have your own computer now too and do not have to go to the library to do some of your work.
Totally agree with you about our @Adge - such a wonderful little finch who we very much love here ...๐ @Adge and thank you for your kind words ๐
โ24-03-2020 08:56 AM
โ24-03-2020 08:56 AM
Part of achieving a proper separation is me paying for my own resources @Zoe7 ..... it's just that it's supposed to be done in line with everything else, and the fact that he hadn't been managing resources properly (too busy with his new life / "wife" and regimen) and dumped them on me in arrears is just another marker that he can be counted on to be as difficult as he thinks he can get away with.
There is no point getting down in the mud with him any more than necessary. It's like dealing with a bratty tantrumous toddler.
โ24-03-2020 11:15 AM
โ24-03-2020 11:15 AM
Sending love and support @Zoe7 and @Faith-and-Hope xoxo
โ24-03-2020 05:33 PM
โ24-03-2020 05:33 PM
The further away from him the better @Faith-and-Hope You stick to what you know and can do under the circumstances and don't let his antics, tantrums and brattish ways affect you too much - you cannot control what he does but you can control how you react (as I know you do). Stay strong sweetheart - this will eventually pass and he will once and for all be out of your life so you can build one that is so much better for yourself. Hugs and hugs and hugs ๐๐๐๐งก๐
Love and hugs to you too @eth
โ24-03-2020 06:04 PM
โ24-03-2020 06:04 PM
@Faith-and-Hope @eth @Adge @Snowie @Former-Member @Sans911 @Angels333 @Meowmy @greenpea @MDT @BlueBay and others visiting here...
I had a posy of flowers given to me from one of the mum's at school this morning along with a thank you for teaching the kids. It is those very unexpected but lovely gestures that we are seeing at our school that continue to sustain us throughout this difficult time. I only had 12 there today but it was the most wonderful day with so much learning and so much laughing - made me happy to do the job I do and so proud of my kids for all they have put in and the learning they are continuing to engage in. Love my job and love my kids
โ24-03-2020 06:07 PM
โ24-03-2020 06:07 PM
@Zoe7you go above and beyond for your kids
I am so glad for you that is was acknowledge by one of the mum's
So nice to receive some thanks for all you do
Take care hun
โ24-03-2020 06:13 PM
โ24-03-2020 06:14 PM
โ24-03-2020 06:14 PM
Thanks @Snowie It certainly gave me a heartlift this morning and the kids were amazing all day. One of the boys took over the class for the afternoon and I was not allowed to move from one spot - it was adorable and made me laugh all afternoon (which I got in trouble for from him lol) I was kept busy colouring in HIS work for him whilst he organised everyone else - going to be Prime Minister one day that one ...or in the theatre - not sure which
โ24-03-2020 07:38 PM
โ24-03-2020 07:38 PM
It's so nice to feel appreciated @Zoe7 in your job. Really nice to receive the flowers. Take care xxoo
โ24-03-2020 10:47 PM
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