Merry Xmas All!

[Blackbird11]

Big hugs @tonys today we will chip away at our dreams, one step at a time. Thanks for the song🎶

Here is one for you... 

https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=DqgIN8wcDF0&si=D2DB1Ge7vszwXwh9

[Yeahright86]

Merry Xmas!!! 🎅 🐾 

[Faith-and-Hope]

Best Christmas Wishes everyone 🎄🎉💕 

[Historylover]

I hope you had a pleasant Xmas, @tonys. It's good to see you back even in a limited capacity. I hope your rehabilitation is progressing well. I send best wishes for the New Year.

[Historylover]

I hope your Xmas was merry and bright, @Appleblossom. I send best wishes for the coming year.

[StanD]

It was Christmas 🎄 @TAB I hope I'm not in trouble. I won't do it again mods.

I need to express TAB, @

I won't write it here.

You don't need to reply.

I need to tell.

You did so good @Appleblossom 

[StanD]

@tyme 

I didn't understand human trampoline. I do now 

I don't have any children around me. Are they really annoying? I was surprised, & thankful for the honesty.

I guess they get very bored, & constantly want entertainment. You need to find things for them to do?

I worked at a creche (idk how to spell) for work experience at he & later I looked for work in childcare. Yes, I think you need endless patience with little ones. I don't think I was very good at it. Truly, exhausting job. I think I might like to work with children again, one day 

I'm thinking it's really only the toddler age that is annoying?

I worked as teachers aide grade 3&4. They were never whingy or annoying. I loved it. One of my favourite jobs. I can get along very well with kids. It was extremely difficult for me to fit in with teachers. There was mild "bitchiness' - terrible word. I am so different to other adults. I cannot understand, or know how to defend myself in that world. It feels like a form of abuse. I think, they will never accept me, so I give up & distance myself.

Then, they think I'm rude, or obnoxious.

Kids, I can get.

Adults - it is an alien world to me.

It is upsetting, not to fit in - or feel so much pressure to be person I am not.

I am not mum, I'm barely an adult.

I do not judge.

I simply, don't have experience & do not understand .

It makes me lonely& sad. A friend, for me - is the greatest fortune I could ever find.

My cats like me👍

They are new people in our new home. I can give them peace. I am finally, worthy mum.

Sometimes, I hate them! Meowing for food. Constantly changing litter boxes. Them house smells of poop & urine. Why do they do their biggest poops at 4am? I am too tired to take it out.

I love them. Sometimes, I wish I could have a break. Or, I wonder what it would be like if another person also looked after them with me.

Is this what it's like with kids?

I wouldn't spend one sec not wanting & loving them. Tho, they are lots of responsibility. It's hard.

[Glisten]

Happy Boxmas
To all Forumites that do Christmas twice

@Historylover @chibam @StanD @Faith-and-Hope @Yeahright86 @TAB @Former-Member @MDT @Jynx @amber22 @Shaz51 @Meowmy @tyme and everyone in our forum family 🌏💞

[Yeahright86]

Thank you and merry Xmas to you all again.

[TAB]

Cold here today. Fridge is nearly back to normal after bursting with all sorts of treats. Recovery Day. @Glisten