28-06-2020 06:04 PM - edited 28-06-2020 06:21 PM
28-06-2020 06:04 PM - edited 28-06-2020 06:21 PM
@Former-Member ...am too upset for you and your situation to respond properly. I am very concerned about you and how you will manage without your forum family. Thank you for explaining why you have to leave...I wish it wasn't necessary, and that you were safer at home. I can't even think about all your kind and caring words for everyone, and the love and effort you put into those 2 long posts. All I can think about is that you might not be safe or well at home. 😥.Please stay as safe as possible 💔
28-06-2020 06:05 PM
28-06-2020 06:05 PM
Dear @Former-Member
there must bw a way we can keep in touch, I have very few friends I trust with my story. I trust you, and ant to stay in touch somehow. Xxxxperi
28-06-2020 06:08 PM
28-06-2020 06:08 PM
Hi there @Peri
I am moderating this evening and am just posting a note about safety on the forum. The safety guidelines, members, managers and moderators of the SANE forums are all part of the process for ensuring safety. We thing by and large this works well and it is a safe space. Members can leave the forums for a range of reasons including concerns about their privacy being compromised but this is rare. They are not obliged to say why they might be leaving. If you have concerns about safety on the forums please do not hesitate to raise your conserns with the community managers by emailing team@saneforums.org
warmest regards
Whitehawk
28-06-2020 06:16 PM - edited 28-06-2020 06:17 PM
28-06-2020 06:16 PM - edited 28-06-2020 06:17 PM
@Peri I am so sorry. I wish that it were possible to stay in touch somehow too, but it isnt right now. All I can say is that if I can find a way back here some time in the future, I will find you. But I cant, if you leave. Please take care.
Love you.
Sherry 💔
28-06-2020 07:18 PM - edited 28-06-2020 07:21 PM
28-06-2020 07:18 PM - edited 28-06-2020 07:21 PM
@Former-Member ... Nikki, please reassure little Kimmy that I have my beautiful butterfly saved seperately on my computer, as well as the printed copy on my wall. Please remember Nikki, to take care of you, because you are more than simply Izzys protector. Can I please ask you to pass on a big hug to Izzy from me. And one for you too. 💕
@NatureLover ... Good byes are so hard. It really does hurt. Please dont worry about me NatureLover, I will be okay. I will find a way. 💔
28-06-2020 07:55 PM
28-06-2020 07:55 PM
@Former-Member take care. Best wishes.
28-06-2020 08:19 PM
28-06-2020 08:19 PM
Dear beautiful friend @Former-Member
as you know I'm taking a break, just too much going on
but I wanted to write to you because I know tomorrow your account will be closed. I remember you from another forum, one that we connected. And then I saw you on here and we reconnected. was so happy. We both reconnected with @Whiteknight (hope you're well)
Tonight I'm crying because I didn't want this to be like this thst you need to leave. I do understand. It doesn't make it any easier though. I'm sad and worried for you. You have so much on your plate.
I hope one day soon you feel safe and ok to come back.
Im going to really miss you. You have given me so much support snd love.
I don't know what else to say. I hope you get to read this before tomorrow.
ive always loved chatting with you. I care about you.
im still taking a break. Not sure when I'll be back. But I couldn't let you go without saying something.
eish there was another way you could stsy. But I respect your decision.
pls stay safe and look after you. You are so deserving of love and care. I'll be thinking of you.
Love you sherry ❤️❤️😘🙏💐❤️❤️
BB xxxx
28-06-2020 11:27 PM
28-06-2020 11:27 PM
Hi @Former-Member - I am so sorry your phone was invaded - that is a really horrible - my sister invaded my on-line privacy in the past - I remember how my heart sank - such behaviour undermines our trust and I do understand
I hope you can find support elsewhere until you feel you can come back here. You must care for yourself and I will hold onto the hope that you some day return
You can get a password on your phone so no one can open it - it can be a nuisance day-to-day but it feels safer
All the best my dear friend
Dec
29-06-2020 12:16 AM
29-06-2020 12:16 AM
Dear @Former-Member ,
surely that is not your fault , a fault in the system, yet you are being punished
peri
29-06-2020 11:46 AM
29-06-2020 11:46 AM
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