09-07-2024 09:21 PM
09-07-2024 09:21 PM
Hi Everyone,
I’ve been hibernating and hope you’re all doing ok.
I’d like some advise please.
I have ptsd, bipolar, general anxiety and am on the autism spectrum. I also have several physical issues, hidden disabilities. Both my mental and physical health impact my functioning and it’s hard to explain why a person in the late 40s can look fine and not be ok. I don’t like oversharing and try to avoid that, but sometimes I would just like to be able to tell people what I love with in just a few sentences. There’s so much stigma, even when I go to the doctors, I had a very offending interrogation at the GP last week and that dragged me down considerably.
I’d just like to be able to explain in layman terms (and without making them read pamphlets) what is actually wrong with me. .
has anyone an idea? I’m upset because people asked me several times if I get angry and violent when I have mania. I’m upset because it’s says everywhere awareness for mental health is rising, but I don’t think that applies to complex mental illness.
I'm just tired of being sick. I don’t even know if I am sick and I don’t want to be sick. So often I blame my meds for making sick, and they are and I don’t want to take them anymore. And I don’t want to have to take them anymore.
any ideas how to explain ‘mental illness for dummies?
thank you x
09-07-2024 10:43 PM
10-07-2024 12:35 AM - edited 10-07-2024 12:37 AM
10-07-2024 12:35 AM - edited 10-07-2024 12:37 AM
Hello @toodles
Living with mental and physical health issues is challenging at the best of times, when all we have to cope with is our own ill-health. It's so hard when all that other stuff comes up because people don't understand.
Maybe your question comes in 3 parts.
Sometimes factsheets or pamphlets are useful - not to give people but because they can suggest wording we can use ourselves. If you google a condition you'll often find a big US medical clinic has a good explainer. There are also some good Australian factsheets from government sponsored websites. SANE has factsheets too. I'd avoid blogs and commercial sites selling products.
I hope that helps with questions 1 and 3.
How we justify ourselves when people are negative and antagonistic is a whole other question. IMHO all we can do is state our truth calmly and clearly.
Take care. It's nice to see you back.
10-07-2024 10:09 AM
10-07-2024 10:09 AM
Morning @toodles
I can feel the frustration in your words with no only being sick, but also being sick of the ignorance of some people. Trying to explain yourself to people who have never experienced what you have can be draining, annoying and tiresome. As @Dimity indicated factsheets and brochures have their uses, but telling the people we love is the hardest, we leave ourselves open and vulnerable. All you can do is really tell it how it is, in a manner that you think the other person will understand. All the very best.........Asgard
10-07-2024 09:08 PM
If you need urgent assistance, see Need help now
For mental health information, support, and referrals, contact SANE Support Services
SANE Forums is published by SANE with funding from the Australian Government Department of Health
SANE - ABN 92 006 533 606
PO Box 1226, Carlton VIC 3053
Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
SANE acknowledges the Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as traditional custodians of the land on which it operates. We pay respect to Elders past, present and emerging, and value the rich history, unbroken culture and ongoing connection of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people to country.
SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.
Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
SANE acknowledges the Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as traditional custodians of the land on which it operates. We pay respect to Elders past, present and emerging, and value the rich history, unbroken culture and ongoing connection of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people to country.
SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.
SANE is a public company limited by guarantee and registered tax-exempt charity with DGR (Deductible Gift Recipient) status.
Charity ABN 92 006 533 606. Donations of $2 or more are tax deductible. SANE, PO Box 1226, Carlton VIC 3053.