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Re: The lies, secrets and cheating from my bpd partner are destroying me.

checking in to see how you are going @Janey1 , @Bwishes HeartHeart

@Ali11 

Re: The lies, secrets and cheating from my bpd partner are destroying me.

Hi Shaz51, thanks for checking in, since I last posted to the Forum is a bit of a blur we have parted then return to each other twice I think since then, my thoughts were correct and she admitted it but it didnt make it any easier, I have gone to feeling strong about being able to support her in the way needed to I cant do this anymore and am trying to heal and some self care, her distorted accusations and beliefs continued always an excuse to not go to her GP or return to therapy, its hard because I really do love her at the same time I know if I stay she will destroy me emotionally to, we have gone our own way, I gave her $1200 to help pay her bills a few days after that I felt a huge feeling I couldnt ignore it was her about to explode again and lash out splitting me again so I ended it.