Welcome to the forums, you will find many that will support you.
My heart goes out to you. I can understand your feeling of betrayal and I hear you.
Its ok to feel lost after what was a stable and trusting relationship. It will take time to heal.
Slowly start to focus on some of the things you would like to do once we ease on COVID-19 restrictions. You might want to join some online community groups or clubs where you can meet other people over zoom. Focus on your interests.
Try to do things that make you happy and fulfilled in life rather than focus on trying to please others or focus on the boys club. Try to make new friends.
It can be difficult for many others when they are friends of both parties, they feel conflicted about who to support and tend to sway towards one party or the other in that broken down relationship.
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