Omg both of your worlds have turned inside out. I'm so sorry mental health services have let you both down so badly. Something is obviously very wrong. If they're saying it's not mental illness, what do they think it is? Have they scanned her brain to check for an injury? How devastating for both of you that supposed mental health professionals laughed. I hope someone jumps on here soon with some practical suggestions for you.
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