is it wrong not telling our adult children re my husbands condition he doesn't want them to know and I have accepted his wishes--- @charlie10  , I do  this too , I have 4 adults step children who don`t know  all about his conditions

how is your children`s relationship with their dad

I know one of my children has noticed the difference in him when they have been alone together -- can your child freely ask their dad anything like " are you ok dad" or " what`s up "

here for you , how are you today