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Former-Member
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Re: why can't I cope longer?

I've been in bed all day, this is not living.

Re: why can't I cope longer?

Come cook with me, can do anything you want, tell me your pantry and I will help you cook a storm Clawde here loves to cook with a challenge 🪄


@Former-Member wrote:
I've been in bed all day, this is not living.

 

Re: why can't I cope longer?

I heard Terri Irwin once say she wanted people to look at her and say “Steve did well marrying that woman” @Former-Member 

 

I think that too for my h but I have failed badly this past year.

Re: why can't I cope longer?

Pizza & a Swim sounds Good @Eve7 (I'm not a Swimmer).

A Cafe Latte (instead of Baileys) - if that's what you'd prefer.

Latte Art GIFs | Tenor

Re: why can't I cope longer?

Sorry @Former-Member Just one more Coffee....

My back has been caning me all day (the worst in years) - Plus bad Gut/ Tummy pain.

The combination of both pains wiped me out - I had to cancel a Coffee catchup with an old friend.

I couldn't drive there, I wasn't up to it.

This one is the Universe (or Galaxy) in a Cup....

Coffee Space GIF - Coffee Space - Discover & Share GIFs

Re: why can't I cope longer?

Paperazzi @Eve7 @Former-Member ? ...

I just had my Post Removed - In trying to reply to you.

Even though I used your Exact Same Phrase - Which was Supposedly Okay, because you used that Word yourself.

 

I've had so many of my Posts suddenly Disappear (Removed) - It's not funny.

Always gives me a terrible shock, when that happens.

Then it happened again right now.

Alway at Night, when I'm Going to Bed.

 

Dad's Birthday was December 27th (that's a Trigger/ Grief Time).

Dad's Anniversary is coming up on March 20th (5 days after my Birthday).

Which means I've been Sad (Grief) at the time of my Birthday - Every year, for the past 5 years.

Adge

Former-Member
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Re: why can't I cope longer?

Oh @Adge - sorry you lost the post, do you know why? I'm not surprised with the flurry of activity here tonight, sorry. Don't worry, those who count got to see it 👍 I saved the image 😁 after Eve said they smashed one of her posts. I use to be crushed by it but found a way to cope now - i've learned to 'not care' (this is not a democracy lol).
Sorry your dads B'day and passing dates still hit you hard. Us mere humans are just not just not wired for death 😨😞 Hang in there, crack open your life raft to ride those grief waves when they come 💛 Hard on our own 💛

Former-Member
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Re: why can't I cope longer?

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Re: why can't I cope longer?

Thanks @Former-Member

I will try to Ride those Waves of Grief....

Grief Sucks.

Losing someone sucks.

Grief does not just naturally work its way through (or just happen), as many people seem to think.

Because there is so much Suppression & Denial in society- that stops Grieving.

Grief is not valued or recognised as necessary or healthy.

Adge

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Re: why can't I cope longer?

It's true @Adge, it's like a lot of things... society / the world make it so much harder than it needs to be 💛
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