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Re: why can't I cope longer?

Just had memory of one of mum's abuses on me, and how it hurt, but then realised she's died, something ndhappened inside of me, tension drained away to really know "SHE CAN'T HURT ME ANYMORE!" Not like that 😏

Re: why can't I cope longer?

You’re safe now @EOR 

 

No one is going to hurt you today

 

Safe bear 🐻 🤗🐻🤗🐻 Hugs 

 

💖💖💖

Re: why can't I cope longer?

That is super hard @EOR Those triggers can be very unsettling so you have done very well to enable that tension to drain away. Hugs and hugs Hon Heart

Re: why can't I cope longer?

Tassie is a beautiful place @EOR The coastal towns are just gorgeous and luckily from the major cities most are only a couple of hours away so can visit them in a day. I want to head to the West coast for a couple of days when I can afford it. I could take Toby as there are a lot of pet friendly places there to stay but would need my sister to look after Cat. I could only go for 2 full days as my sister would not be able to give Cat her meds. We could go 2 days without one of them but her chemo one is every 3 days and she needs that one. She gets that at dinner time with her food so I could be back in time for that. That is going to be some time off though.

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Thanks @Eve7 💕🙏🤗 what you up to today?

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Sounds Great @Zoe7, a little trip to the west coast with Toby. Even if just for a weekend. I had planned to spend this summer in Tazzy & Nth Qld in winter... Got the van and all, but stupid COVID. Think it might be a nightmare navigating the boarder closures now, not to mention risk being stranded unable to return. I donno, maybe next year. Some docos on Tassy are good, definately on my bucket list.. might even move there for 6months lol

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You might even find it hard to leave if you come for 6 months @EOR It does get cold in winter though so moving back to a warmer climate might be necessary Smiley Tongue I don't particularly like the cold myself so happy to go to work and home on those days. Tobes and Cat snuggle in on their respective beds and then Tobes snuggles with me when I am home - that is the life! 

 

From March to June this year the Spirit is taking cars free of charge but of course we still have COVID to navigate so travel anywhere outside of the state here is precarious. Not sure of the process coming into the state - and it may be too soon for you - but maybe worth looking up.

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I’ve done some housework and folded washing @EOR 

 

Later on I have a training session with some athletes I coach however I haven’t walked today.I booked flights to Adelaide for an event next month which I hope goes ahead 🤞

 

I’ll pick up dinner on the way home from Subway. so that will round off a quiet day. 

 

Has your day improved?

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Tassie is lovely @EOR @Zoe7 @Eve7 .  I have visited the state 4 times in total, and thoroughly enjoyed each.  Was there for different reasons each time, and saw different places too.  I think overall now, I have been everywhere in the state ... North South East and West and everywhere in between.  I was there mid winter one year, and the weather was actually really nice.  I was told that early July is good, because you rarely get the cold winds until later in the season.  I was there the last week of June and first week of July ... the weather was lovely sunny crisp winter days, with no wind.  I dont mind the cold though, so perhaps I'm not a good advisor of such things.  Hi @Adge @Clawde 👋

 

For you @EOR  .... because you are a good friend, provide lovely support and I value you very much. Thank you.

 

Emelia 💞

 

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Aww @Emelia8 - those roses are lovely surprise thank you 🤗 You have a quiet night tonight, keep those fluids up (not the alcohol ones lol) Green & white tea would be good.
@Zoe7 oh wow, free car trips across the Bass 👍 but in winter 😗🤔☃️ I would like to go to the Festival of Voices in Hobart but that's probably cancelled this year. Do post about your trip when you go 🤗
The treadmill tech guy just left. Replaced the mat and showed me what to do if it seems to be slipping. He thinks it may not have been callibrated properly. So back to the drawingboard with that. Would you believe he's from Tassy but left with army postings and only goes there to visit family. Lovely guy, married ☹️lol
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