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[Shaz51]

Hello and hugs @eskimos , @Determined , @Trauma_Scars , @BPDSurvivor , @Eve7 

Sitting  with you my friends 

[Eve7]

Thank you @Shaz51 

Hope your evening goes well.

[Mellysmellyelly]

Hello @eskimos i read your posts and really feel for you. Hang onto hope. Your experiences are a bit. over my head (because i'm fairly sure. that my husband knows i love him )so as i share my thoughts they may need confirmation by someone in forum who is more experienced or trained than me. Would it be appropriate to assure someone of our love, acknowledge it is hard for people to feel love when they are sick but just as children are taught to say thank you, all relationships need a little appreciation

[eskimos]

I understand what you mean, we are doing exactly the same, however, that condition is unloading a lot of hate on me and this is thought to cope sometimes. And my wife thinks that I do not love her if I do not agree with her or comply with her orders, even when I say that out loud. But I still understand that this is kind of not her only that condition.

I have some experience with my MS, I rejected it first, denial, grief and finally accept and start recover to that level that I have lost 20kg (for purpose), become as fit as possible with my physical limitation (I can swim 600m only with my hands). I am sure that kind of process is probably needed for her as well. She read about it and rejected it, oh well first step done.

[Mellysmellyelly]

Hello Determined, i like what ypu said about yr family having come a long way in the positive sense : ))