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14-09-2019 06:39 PM
14-09-2019 06:39 PM
The never ending fight
Hi everyone,
Im 36yrs old, have been fighting mental illness my whole life. I am currently diagnosed with severe social anxiety, generalised anxiety disorder, major depression, autistic traits, adhd inattentive, brain fog and a few other things. I havent got a formal diagnosed for autism as i was told by the psychiatrist that they cant give me a diagnosis while my anxiety is so bad because they overlap so much. I have been on and off different medication over the years but the side affects arent much fun. I have found that the food i eat does affect my mental health, so i eat as healthy as possible, I am pretty good most of the time now, but still have my down times. Ive come to realise I am a 36yr old person who barely scraped through school, brain fog pretty much robbed me of learning or retaining much information. Im like an 18yr old who has just finished school with no experience behind them, which for a 36yr old is not good and causes my anxiety to go up. How does one get help in finding meaningful work, Is there anyone out there who actually would be more of a mentor than a boss? I know i need someone who will support me and help me when required but of the many people i have asked i am normally met with silence as in no response at all.
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14-09-2019 08:28 PM
14-09-2019 08:28 PM
Re: The never ending fight
it sounds really tough for you. finding work I can imagine would be really tough, maybe you could have a think about doing some skills tafe courses. quite a few are online just to increase your knowledge?
perhaps as a starting point working in a shop such as coles or woolworths might help to get you some experience?
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14-09-2019 09:29 PM
14-09-2019 09:29 PM
Re: The never ending fight
Hi outlander, Thank You for you response, I have completed a cert 3 in web design and a diploma in business which I am pretty proud of, but they are worthless. I'm just wasting money going nowhere. My wife knows the nightfill Manager at coles near me, he put my name forward but they only want to hire young people. I have had jobs before but they have only ever been basic jobs like packing orders etc. It's hard because I don't know what I'm good at and no one will give me a chance to try. I like writing, computers, cars, technical sort of jobs but have very little to no experience in any of them
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14-09-2019 10:19 PM
14-09-2019 10:19 PM
Re: The never ending fight
Maybe have a look at jobs associated with your intetests and see how you could become that ie a website designer, or mechanic or something else.
Also please feel free to have a look around and join in where you feel comfortable.
A forum tip is to put an @ before a members name and itll tag them for you so they recieve a notification.
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16-09-2019 09:04 AM
16-09-2019 09:04 AM
Re: The never ending fight
Hi @Tam28 and welcome to the forum. I can hear how hard it is to be wanting to find meaningful work but not having the opportunity to give things a go or really knowing what it is you'd be suited to.
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16-09-2019 12:55 PM
16-09-2019 12:55 PM
Re: The never ending fight
Do you have parents or siblings?
Have you ever had a job?
Do you have a resume/cv?
What type of job do you think you are suited to?
CKS
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17-09-2019 08:02 PM
17-09-2019 08:02 PM
Re: The never ending fight
@outlander Thankyou for your tip about the @ symbol
I am considering doing some volunteer work, but does it ever turn into a paid job? has anyone had any luck with that?
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17-09-2019 08:06 PM
17-09-2019 08:06 PM
Re: The never ending fight
@CheerBear Thankyou for your response, I am considering trying to do some volunteer work, do you think your volunteer work will ever turn into paid work? I have asked at a couple of places before but the insurance cost of having me there wasnt worth it to the employer(mechanic)
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17-09-2019 08:12 PM
17-09-2019 08:12 PM
Re: The never ending fight
Hi @Tam28
Your post fits very neatly with the Tuesday Topic. It is a good question! Maybe post it in the the topic thread:
Re: Topic Tuesday // Navigating work life and mental health // Tues 17 Sep, 7pm AEST
cheers
Whitehawk
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17-09-2019 08:17 PM
17-09-2019 08:17 PM
Re: The never ending fight
@silverspoon
Yes 2 parents, 1 brother 2 sisters, none of them do anything im remotely interested in though, my brother is an accountant, and i did have 2 attempts at an accounting degree, but couldnt do it
Yes had jobs, mainly very easy jobs, the jobs no one else want because they dont pay enough to even make ends meet. I worked as a handyman at my wifes work for about a year before it came too much for me. (i dont seem to cope very well under pressure, hence the need for a mentor instead of a boss)
Yes have a resume, my wife did it for me, it has got me a few interviews, but normally dont get any further
Im suited to hands on type jobs, fixing computer, mowers, cars etc