21-05-2018 09:07 PM
21-05-2018 09:07 PM
Hi @Shaz51
If Mr Shaz is getting up to make cuppas I would love a coffee - instant is fine -
It must be really hard to be encouraging for Mr Shaz when you are battling to keep yourself on an even keel - I get that - I know this is a bothersome situation - I get it too that you are unlikely to get any encouragement yourself - and I am not thinking that in an unkind way - when you married him you guys must have been good friends in love and that must be a wonderful memory - he became ill - mentally ill - and your have physical problems and there is a bit of cross-over for both of you
But most women seem to get on with things - as tough as they often are - just a little bit better than the guys
Did I mention that it's been proven that man-flu is real - men suffer more - the hormone oestrogen - wonderful as it is - we need it for all the female parts of us to work - including being there for others -
Fantastic that 0_|_]
I haven't been feeling well much - very so-so - since I have been taking these darn BP Tablets - I told my doctor today and I have to have all these blood and urine tests - suffering cats - I did not want to here that - mostly my thyroid is getting the works - aw - sheesh - this has not cheered me up one bit
Dec
I'm getting older - that's my excuse and it's working so I am sticking with it
21-05-2018 09:23 PM
21-05-2018 09:23 PM
Hi @Former-Member
I have a warped and rather sharp sense of humour - I get the joke in several different ways - not going there right now
I love your pic though and I have been thinking of you - I think of have the gloomies in my soul - either that or thyroid - I told me doctor I thought my BP tablets are too strong - and I am having blood and urine tests - already said that here - I am not hypochrondrical and feel having all these tests is just the doctor looking for a problem I don't want to know about -
Dec drops her head onto the computer keyboard feeling dejected - muttering - I hate cold and gloomy weather
Take like as it comes Lapses - we really have no other way to get through it
Dec
22-05-2018 12:54 AM
22-05-2018 12:54 AM
22-05-2018 02:58 PM
22-05-2018 02:58 PM
Hi @Former-Member
I just have to survive it - totally convinced it is the weather and SAD - I think I have a bunch of SAD emojis here
Take your pic - now I am thinking - which is me today - top left I think - still thinking it's gotta have a funny side - and I also think there is a way of clipping these
It is sooooooooo interesting to look for appropriate pics - all the stuff I found looking for a gloomy pic that suited me - no - I am not that miserable - just don't feel like moving out of my shadow and you know - my shadow is not the worst place in the world to be
I had bacon, eggs and tomatoes for lunch - dim sims and salad for dinner last night - I eat well - I am not worried about most of the tests the doctor wants on that order - I think he is glad I am finally going and getting something done about a blood test he has wanted me to have for a few years - not really interested either - sure it's the weather
How are you going there sis - I know it ain't easy - I guess you would like to look after your Dad alone in peace for as long as he lasts - pity about those brothers
Care heaps
Dec
22-05-2018 11:08 PM - edited 22-05-2018 11:19 PM
22-05-2018 11:08 PM - edited 22-05-2018 11:19 PM
Sorry @Owlunar, brain not working.
think i have the blues
Think we should run away together and hibernate from the world 'till spring. At least then we wouldn't be alone.
I need a good cry. So tired.
29-05-2018 10:55 PM
29-05-2018 10:55 PM
One of those night, can't stop crying
29-05-2018 10:59 PM
29-05-2018 10:59 PM
Sorry to hear that you’re struggling @Former-Member. Anything in particular that is getting you down?
29-05-2018 11:10 PM
29-05-2018 11:10 PM
Hope you’re okay @Former-Member and that things will be better for you in the morning.
29-05-2018 11:16 PM - edited 30-05-2018 04:03 AM
29-05-2018 11:16 PM - edited 30-05-2018 04:03 AM
My friend up north who has been watching my place / watering my garden just rang earlier, in one of her moods, and said shes sick of it - ALL OF IT 😞 Something about having to do the 10min extra drive after work... Guess shes not 'getting'anything out of it.
29-05-2018 11:25 PM
29-05-2018 11:25 PM
How does so may think i should leave dad ? She thinks her comment was gonna "put a spanner in the works" of my plan to stay as long as my dad needs me. Its like they'd rather o be the victim forever, not grow, not be useful... So over it myself. I dont know what to do but to stay. My si sdont careenough tohelp dad
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