Lived Experience Forum

[natureoflife]

I feel so low and stuck and don’t know where to turn anymore. I have been crying for hours today and just wanted to go home from school so I spent over an hour crying in my car. The people around me have been bulking and herassing me and I have put so much time and effort into my school and have had it all thrown back in my face. I hate life and the people around me. I just don’t know how much more of this I can take. What have you all done in the situation

[Former-Member]

Hi @natureoflife

Please talk to a teacher or counsellor you trust at school and also your family about the bullying and harassment you are enduring. They will be able to help you and to take action to put a stop to it. You have a right to feel safe at school and to a proper education. You don't have to endure this alone. Sending a warm hug 🤗 

[Former-Member]

Hello @natureoflife

I can certainly understand you feeling that you hate the people around you who are treating you in such a horrid way...

schools nowadays as well as workplaces take this sort of behaviour very seriously..

do you mind if I ask how long you have been treated in such a terrible way?

Also if you don't mind how old are you? I understand that you have a drivers license..

Are you able to talk about most things with your parents..mum or dad or both?

I want to reassure you that this is totally confidential and safe. Nobody will judge you here.

I want to also know that you are in a safe place...are you still in your car? Or are you now at home?

Is it ok with you if I ask one of the professional people here to check on you?

you don't need to post any of your private information here...the moderators who keep us all safe have that information already..

[natureoflife]

@Former-Member why don’t you what one of the professional people to check on me?

[Former-Member]

@natureoflife

So pleased that you responded ..thank you..

I am very concerned for you having been treated so badly..

the moderators who are professional might have training in this area and be able to reassure you?

I wanted to check with you first to respect you and also your privacy...

[natureoflife]

@molhill but what are they doing to do?

[Former-Member]

@natureoflife

Sorry to frighten you..

they will either send you an email or text message to check that you are ok..

I am a member here and do not have access to anyone's private information..

they will not do anything else without your permission..

they might just send you details of younger helplines..

[natureoflife]

Ok @molhill

[natureoflife]

I will be ok @molhill

[Former-Member]

Thank you @natureoflife

I understand how incredibly difficult it would be to trust someone whilst feeling so distressed..

very brave of you to reach out on here...you have strength..

I will ask for  @Former-Member ..urgent please

@natureoflife has left school and feeling very distressed re bullying..

please contact to assure safe and give advice..have reassured @natureoflife totally confidential

thank you moderator

woul you like to talk to me while you wait? About any subject?