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25-05-2018 12:09 AM
25-05-2018 12:09 AM
Feeling guilty
I'm bipolar diagnosed 2years ago anyway with the meds I'm on apart from the physical side effects, counselling mentally I'm doing ok but I can't stop having a feeling guilty and I know I haven't done anything to feel guilty about. I feel like a bad person when I know I shouldn't. I volunteer at salvos 10 hours a week, I'm trying to give back to the community for the help and support I got.
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25-05-2018 01:08 AM
25-05-2018 01:08 AM
Re: Feeling guilty
Are there other things that you also feel proud about?
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25-05-2018 05:50 AM
25-05-2018 05:50 AM
Re: Feeling guilty
Cheers for your kind words.
I got two dogs who are my kids and I do have a positive outlook for the future and things are going ok, again I know there's no reason for me to feel guilty which is the frustrating part.
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25-05-2018 07:13 AM
25-05-2018 07:13 AM
Re: Feeling guilty
Are you able to try and tell these thoughts to go away? (Use whatever type of language you like). It's not easy. I think it needs to be practiced many times every day.
What sort of dogs do you have? I have a Labrador and a maltese/shitzu. 2 very different dogs, in size and personalities.
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25-05-2018 07:17 AM
25-05-2018 07:17 AM
Re: Feeling guilty
@ @Tchef You sound like a wonderful human being. If your volunteering you are going above and beyond being a good person. Guilt is an emotion that is very common in people who have mood disorders. I have schizoaffective disorder and when my first symptoms emerged in my early twenties OVERWHELMING guilt .along with my MI. It passed with proper medication and psychotherapy. I pray that you find peace from your guilt through medication and therapy.
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25-05-2018 07:51 AM
25-05-2018 07:51 AM
Re: Feeling guilty
I believe you should ask yourself if your guilt is justified. If you do more than average community work then you have no reason to feel guilty.
Lower your guilt by reducing voluntary hours and introduce activities of distraction like a hobby, sport or passion.
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25-05-2018 02:36 PM
25-05-2018 02:36 PM
Re: Feeling guilty
hello, as the others have said and which you also know, you have nothign to be guilty about.
It's hard to change though, and mental illness can confuse things. but over time, by showing yourself that you are doing an amazing job by volunteering so many hours of your week, and just living life with distractions like a hobby or keeping your animals (I have animals too!), you will feel less guilty.
it can take time though, so please keep talking to us!
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25-05-2018 07:48 PM
25-05-2018 07:48 PM
Re: Feeling guilty
That's the problem I can't block it, today I feel good, even though I'm getting more stable but things change day to day, hour to hour.
Axel is a lab and Maggie is a greyhound X bullmastiff.
Maggie is a real princess she barely tolerates Axel
Haha
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25-05-2018 08:21 PM
25-05-2018 08:21 PM
Re: Feeling guilty
My Labrador is black. What is Axel? Great name by the way.
Yes sometimes we can have good days - other days it's hard to find 5 minutes of good. Part of this roller coaster of a ride that is mental illness.
But glad to hear today is easier for you.
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25-05-2018 09:41 PM
25-05-2018 09:41 PM
Re: Feeling guilty
Axel big golden boof head but he is my boy haha. Soon I'll be going to the Bendigo RSPCA to adopt another kid. I live on 4.5 acres so I have the space plus my two are 10yrs and the they will help me train the pup