Am Not Coping

[Zoe7]

@Former-Member Are you ok? 

[Heart]

@Zoe7, Luv you, Hugs to you, take care of you, thinking of you.

[Zoe7]

@Heart 

[Former-Member]

im ok @Zoe7

i just sorry

ill still be here for you, lots of hugs and still thinking of you (if you dont mind that is..)

just curious though- you said you sent help my way..? are you refferring to actually telling other users on here to come over to my thread.. you dont have to answer that if you dont want to

[BlueBay]

Hey my beautiful friend @Zoe7

I do understand what you mean and if any of my posts triggerred you in any way - i am sorry.

Pls take care, and as much time as you need.  You are special friend to me and others on here.  Be gentle on yourself, rest up.

I am your little yellow flower in your garden cheering you up  🙂

Hugs, strength and love to you xxxoo

[Zoe7]

@Former-Member We have Commnunity Guides that roam around the threads and support everyone when they can. They are amazing. I didn't tell anyone to come to your thread - I asked for help for myself. 

So please don't take any of this on board yourself - it really was just where I was at in that moment and how wonderful it was that someone was there to help me and in turn you.

I'm still here for you too - both of us need to look after ourselves first and then each other second - I am really starting to learn this myself and it has taken some time - but in saying that I would never leave someone who needs support - ever 

[Former-Member]

No no i was just curious ❤💜 hope i didn't offend u by saying that.

Im still either way. Take care of yourself ok ❤💜❤💜

[Zoe7]

@BlueBay I'm not sure if you read one of my posts to you - I can't remember myself - but in it I wrote about those people whose 'stuff' doesn't trigger me because I know them and have a deeper rapport and understanding with - you were one of those people I was talking about. It seems really strange but my first thought whenever I see one of your posts is not the content of the post but your emotions and well-being behind it - that is what I respond to.

Now this little flutterby has a flower to sit on also - sooooo sweet - I must be rubbing off on you lol

[Zoe7]

@Former-Member We're a fine pair aren't we lol - I thought I'd  offended you and you thought the same - no offence taken here in anyway 

[Former-Member]

Good morning @Zoe7. In very short time I've been around here quite a few people have stood out to me and you're one of them. You're obviously dealing with a lot and still are able to be so kind to others. It's a lovely quality. As you have said, it's so important for you to be able to step back as well. I know that it can be really hard for me to do that when I notice someone struggling or in pain but like you said, you have to put you first.

I'm sorry you're having a tough time and I'm really glad you were able to reach and and be supported by some other really lovely people. Hope today is a better day for you 💚