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Looking after ourselves

CherryBomb
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No time for self care? Here's a 5-step guide for busy people

Self-care is important. It helps you to stay phyiscally and emotionally well, which puts you in a better place for both you and the person you care for. Here's 5 things that you can do to squeeze it into your daily routines.

1. Start with your needs first

2. Schedule it

3. Priortise 

4. Be assertive about setting your boundaries

5. Focus on little and often

**See this article for more information

Got any other ideas? Tell us what you do? 

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Re: No time for self care? Here's a 5-step guide for busy people

Good morning @CherryBomb   What a great post.  It really had me thinking about more ways I can look after myself.  Prioritising and scheduling are quite important to me at the moment.  I think this is due to there never being enough time in the day for everything and if I don't set aside some time for me it just doesn't happen.

Apart from my sibling I have pets to look after when I get home.  I walk the dogs every day and I really enjoy that because it's my hour of down time where I'm out in the fresh air and don't need to deal with anything at home.  I quite often meet up with people on our walk and stop to have a quick chat and I really love the changing of the seasons.  I like to take in my surroundings and enjoy it.

I love the website you linked to.  So many interesting things on lifehack.  Thank you very much.

Escaped at Last (for respite) Re: No time for self care? Here's a 5-step guide for busy people

I made time for myself twice during the last week. I splurged and got a taxi to and from the cinema (as I couldn't drive myself because of my recent serious knee injury). I saw two movies. One last Friday and another one today. It was excellent.

Re: No time for self care? Here's a 5-step guide for busy people

Fantastic @Tulip..which movies did you see and well done for giving yourself a mini break!

Re: No time for self care? Here's a 5-step guide for busy people

@CherryBomb  I'd like to slot something into the focusing on little and often point that you made if I can and that is to try to live in the moment when we have a bit of respite.

I am really trying to do this but it's quite hard when all the other thoughts are constantly going around in my mind. 

I really want to find a way to block everything out and just live in the moment, even if it's just for 5 minutes at a time.

Does anyone have any tips on how to do this?

Re: No time for self care? Here's a 5-step guide for busy people

I saw the movies Into the Woods & Night at The Museum.

Re: No time for self care? Here's a 5-step guide for busy people

thank you soo much for this , I will need to remember and to put in action .

Re: No time for self care? Here's a 5-step guide for busy people

When I can, I mediate, though I find it nearly impossible, since my husband is obsessed with me being nearby and available at all times. However, it does train the mindset of in the moment. So does doing something you enjoy. Start to do whatever it is - it might be paint your nails (it used to be mine, but now they're bitten so low it's embarrasing), or cooking, sewing, reading, whatever and make sure you focus fully on the details around what you're doing. If you excersise for example, make sure you note how it makes each muscle group feel. If you were painting your nails for example, pay attention to the flow of the polish. My interest is beading, so it's paying attention to the feel of the wire, how the pliers feel in my fingers, how the shapes work, the colours and shapes and textures of the beads, etc.

I hope this helps a little.

Re: No time for self care? Here's a 5-step guide for busy people

Hello   , that was a great post , thank you

@artee, @tulip, @Kiera80, @Alessandra1992, how is everyone going ??

Re: No time for self care? Here's a 5-step guide for busy people

Hubby is never ending difficult and ignores every boundary I set, every time - and still gets angry every time I hold one.  I have plans for the year formulating quite well and expect things to be very different in the second half of the year (or the last quarter). I have had some quality time with my siblings over the Xmas period and met some new relatives today, who have only just discovered my existence (very long complicated story, perhaps I could write a book!). I'm excited to find my family extending, though nobody lives in the same state. I wish I could tolerate the frequently changing weather and cold so I could get their physical support more often, but even a few minutes in a cold wind yesterday made it very clear it cannot happen for my own health.

After being (what I think of as) bullied here just before Xmas, I've not been in here and posting. I'm reluctant to share since then, and I've had a lot to deal with over the Xmas period with the loss of my best friend to long term illness.






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