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20-07-2016 12:41 PM
20-07-2016 12:41 PM
Re: Look alright sound alright, but im not alright
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20-07-2016 12:46 PM
20-07-2016 12:46 PM
Re: Look alright sound alright, but im not alright
Even being aware that you could be making better choices to comfort yourself is good @Chris. It's so important to be gentle with yourself though. So don't be too self-critical about these choices. As you feel stronger you'll be able to make better ones. None of us get it right all the time anyway.
I'm glad that talking it through has helped. We're still here 🙂
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20-07-2016 01:54 PM
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Re: Look alright sound alright, but im not alright
I too vowed i would make things different for my kids. I always tried to listen to them from an early age. I encouraged them to try new things, to be independent. My mantra was to let them go in order for them to come back of their own free will. And over the years they have done that. As for feeling close to them, i feel distant, even disconnected at times.. but at the same time they know i am there for them 24/7, that includes the grand children. Its still a work in progress to feel connected. My emotions have been buried for a long time, and I'm still not comfortable with feeling positive or negative emotions.
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20-07-2016 04:34 PM
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20-07-2016 10:02 PM
20-07-2016 10:02 PM
Re: Look alright sound alright, but im not alright
I hope you're taking care of yourself tonight Chris, as Suzanne suggested.
@pip - I'm so sorry to hear your news about potentially having chemo. I know that Breast Cancer Network Australia has a network / community, just like this - which you can find at https://www.bcna.org.au/online-network/help-faqs/
and they also have a heap of resources if you feel you need it.
I totally understand the type of anger you describe. When do you find out for sure?
Sending you both positive vibes for good health.
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21-07-2016 09:53 AM
21-07-2016 09:53 AM
Re: Look alright sound alright, but im not alright
Hi pip
Im so sorry to hear about what you are going through . Here you are supporting others. I hope you can continue to share you experience with us, so we can support you.
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21-07-2016 01:06 PM
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21-07-2016 03:44 PM
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Re: Look alright sound alright, but im not alright
Hi pip, please let us know how you get on. Even though we are not able to be with you physically, we are with you in spirit, and thinking of you.
I saw the psychiatrist this afternoon and was able to get out what has been hapening for me in the last six weeks or so down to present. She was very understanding and asked me if i needed to be admitted to hospital. I declined for a number of reasons. First its ok to go in, but i still have to go home and face the same issues. Second we are going away in just over a weeks time and everything is booked and payed for. And i am hoping the change will break the cycle of whats been hapening.
I see my own psychiatrist on tuesday and my psychologist on monday, so just have to get through the next few days.
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28-07-2016 01:14 PM
28-07-2016 01:14 PM
Re: Look alright sound alright, but im not alright
Well over a week has passed. At the weekend i decided to email my psychiatrist, with the knowledge i had an appointment on tuesday.
Iwas very open and honest with him about what has been hapening and how i feel. I have had very mixed feelings about this. Part of me feels like I'm attention seeking, another part says I'm reaching out for help. I also have a feeling of being dependant on him, and i really hate that.
I saw my psychologist on monday whichwent welland she said she would try and contact my psychiatrist and let him know she was concerned about my mood.
After all that i had a phone call on monday to cancel my appointment on tuesday as something urgent had come up. So i now will see him tomorrow morning. My mood has been all over the place. I dont know what to do if he says hospital. We go away next week, and my husband is looking forward to it. Part of me say, i just cant do this any more, but i also feel incredably guilty.. i feel caught between the devil and the deep blue sea. Guess I'll just have to wait untill tomorrow.
Pip wher are you? Are you ok. Thinking of you hugs.
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15-08-2016 09:53 AM
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